Blog

Beyond surviving: What to know about bladder, bowel, sexual health & menopause before pelvic cancer treatment
Pelvic Floor Melissa Dessaulles Pelvic Floor Melissa Dessaulles

Beyond surviving: What to know about bladder, bowel, sexual health & menopause before pelvic cancer treatment

When you are diagnosed with pelvic cancer, the immediate goal is understandably clear: treat the cancer.

Appointments, scans, surgery, radiation and chemotherapy can quickly take over. There is an enormous amount of information to absorb, often at a time when simply getting through the next day feels like enough.

But eventually, treatment ends.

And for many people who have been treated for a gynecological or pelvic cancer, another set of questions begins:

  • Why am I suddenly going to the bathroom all the time?

  • Why does sex hurt?

  • Why does my vagina feel different?

  • Why am I leaking urine or stool?

  • Why am I so exhausted?

  • Is it safe to exercise?

  • Will I ever feel like myself again?

Read More
Erectile Dysfunction (Part 2): When the Problem Isn’t Just Physical
Pelvic Floor Melissa Dessaulles Pelvic Floor Melissa Dessaulles

Erectile Dysfunction (Part 2): When the Problem Isn’t Just Physical

When men experience erectile dysfunction (ED), the first assumption is often that something is physically wrong.

Maybe it's low testosterone. Maybe it's blood flow. Maybe it's age. Maybe something isn't working the way it should.

And sometimes there is a medical contributor. That's why a medical assessment is an important part of evaluating erectile dysfunction.

But erections don't happen in isolation from the rest of you.

Your nervous system, stress levels, relationships, beliefs about sex, past experiences, expectations, attention, and ability to relax can all influence erectile function.

In Part 1 of this series, I spoke with urologist Dr. Chris Bitcon about the medical considerations associated with erectile dysfunction.

For Part 2, I sat down with Justin Paulson, a registered clinical counsellor, couples counsellor, and clinical sexologist who works extensively with sexual concerns, including erectile dysfunction and performance anxiety.

Read More
Erectile Dysfunction (Part 1): Why it happens and treatment options
Pelvic Floor Melissa Dessaulles Pelvic Floor Melissa Dessaulles

Erectile Dysfunction (Part 1): Why it happens and treatment options

Erectile function depends on communication between multiple systems in the body, including:

  • The brain

  • The nervous system

  • Blood vessels

  • Hormones

  • Emotional health

  • The pelvic floor muscles

In a recent conversation with Kelowna-based urologist, Dr. Chris Bitcon, we explored the medical side of erectile dysfunction (ED), how erections actually work, and why ED is rarely caused by just one thing.

Read More